Lionel Richie| Stuck on You song

Stuck on you
Ive got this feeling down
Deep in my soul
That I just cant lose
Guess, Im on my way
Needed a friend
And the way I feel now I guess
Ill be with you till the end
Guess Im on my way
Mighty glad you stayed
Im stuck on you
Been a fool too long I guess
Its time for me to come on home
Guess Im on my way
So hard to see
That a woman like you could wait
Around for a man like me
Guess Im on my way
Mighty glad you stayed
Oh, Im leaving on that midnight train
And I know just where Im going
Ive packed up my troubles
And Ive thrown them all away
Because this time little darlin
Im coming home to stay

Im stuck on you
Ive got this feeling down
Deep in my soul
That I just cant lose
Guess, Im on my way
Needed a friend
And the way I feel now I guess
Ill be with you till the end
Guess Im on my way
Im mighty glad you stayed

Something is Missing....

in my life..

Although music is sweet But the song incomplete Now in my life, Boy in my life Something is missing. It's the truth, yes it's true Still there's no me and you Here in my life Boy in my life~ Something is missing... In my life there ain't no melody. In my life there ain't no harmony. To let me sing a song. All I need is a cue when I'm waiting for you here in my... life Boy in my life. You are the melody Coz in my life You are the song. In my life there aint no melody oh no In my life there ain't no harmony to let me sing a song. All i need is a cue while i'm waiting for you here in my life~ Boy in my life. You are the melody Coz in my life You are the song Baby in my life... You are the song... You are the melody To me baby, in my life~ You are my song.

Who will be?

Do I have the right to feel in love and be loved? Who will be? The past? The person I long for… the person that I unloved but loves me or the person whose fortuitously mine right now?

What's a reliable way to know if someone's right for you? There isn't one. How do you know for sure if you're ready to settle down? Who knows? Believe me, I've been trying to figure out these issues for myself for a number of time, before and even until now, and it is tricky… very complicated! Who hasn't had a niggling… irritating feeling like, "Is this the one for me?" Maybe you've got a great relationship goin` until you fin`lly get down to the decision to move in together. There's a decision that you even doesn’t know if it’s RIGHT.
Why? Maybe, there are so many considerations. Well, I don’t have the nerve to mention it all here. I just don’t know what to do. It seems like I realize somethin` and then I get weak-kneed, I feel uneasy, worried, and stressed. Whew~

Various researches and talking to friends- I’ve done just to help out my feelings. Nevertheless I read one extended article that helps me a lot… part of it says:

“How is it possible to know beforehand what sort of relationship you've got? It doesn't really matter until you realize that when you up the ante in love, you up both the positive and negative consequences. Any change in you and your partner's level of commitment can lead you to feel more of the greatest love and warmth you've ever experienced in your life. And subsequently you increase the chance that you'll endure the most profound rejection and pain you've ever imagined.
Here are just a few of the emotions you might feel when you go from dating many to dating one; from seeing each other five nights a week to living together; from being a couple to getting engaged; and from engagement to marriage and beyond:
Joy. Panic. Contentment. Sadness. Glee! Boredom. Relief. Indifference. Anger! Satisfaction. Terror. Peace. Anxiety. Dread. Fulfillment. Repression...you get the idea.”
“In the past we have asked for a great relationship, never received it, and never bothered to do anything differently and wondered why God didn't answer our prayer. Hopefully, we have learned that lesson by now. That's like asking God for a great job and never going to look for one. Excuse me! I don't believe that's what God had in mind. We must be thankful and do something.
Being thankful for the relationships you already have is one of the keys to attracting the relationships you want. Cultivate the practice of affirmative prayer. An attitude of gratitude is faith in action. It is a very satisfying feeling to know that what you are thankful for, you will experience. What you focus on, manifests.”

… that helps me for where I am now~

Love/True Love/Fate

When you love someone, And you love them with your heart, It never disappears When you're apart. And when you love someone And you've done all you can do, You set them free, And if that love was true.... When you love someone It will all come back to you....
from the movie "Forget Paris"

You cannot find true love Where it does not truly exist And you cannot hide it where it truly does .. from the movie "kissing a fool"

Fate exists but it can only take you so far, Because once you're there It's up to you to make it happen.
from the "Can't Hardly Wait"

ABC's of LOVE

The ABC's of Celebrating Love!
Larry James

A Absolutely amaze your partner with adoration. Let them know in very special ways that you care. Exercise extravagant respect and devotion toward your lover. Accept them for who they are. Demonstrate your warm attachment and affection to them. Avoid taking your partner for granted.
B Believe in your instincts. Be spontaneous. Don't plan. . . just do something that you've wanted to do with your partner for a long time. Let your love occur naturally. Stop and pick a roadside flower and present it to your partner.
C Cuddle. Lie close and be cozy. Do spoons! Just hold each other. There is a very special healing power in a close, warm embrace. C is also for "considerate."
D Discover new ways of expressing your love for each other. Hire a skywriter. Put a message up on a billboard. Buy a radio commercial to say I love you. Record a special message on a cassette.
E Entice your lover to try a new way of making love. Always making love the same way can bring on boredom. Focus on pleasure. Enjoy each other to the fullest. Read, Red Hot LoveNotes for Lovers.
F Flirt for fun and frivolity. Be creative in your flirting. Pretend you are together for the first time or that you are trying to pick up your lover.
G Gaze into each other's eyes with a steady intention to say, "I love you" without words. Smile. Notice the eye color. Say something nice about them. Be generous with your love.
H Have a private party for just the two of you. Candles, music, the works. Talk. Listen. Express your love for one another.
I Indulge each other's desires. Write your secret desires on pieces of paper and trade. You may be surprised.
J Joke and have fun together. Lighten up. Be joyous. Release your sense of humor. Have fun with love.
K Kissy. . . kissy. . . kissy! Quick pecks on the cheek don't work. Give your partner an unexpected, looooooong, juicy kiss. Be keen on kissing!
L Love with all your heart and soul. Always remember to speak, "I love you" at least once each day. Express love in new and exciting ways. Remember to love yourself and do nice things for you too.
M Massage away the day's tension and stress. Begin with the feet and work up. Surprise your lover with your magic fingers or tantalizing tongue. Buy some special massage oil; something that smells good.
N Nurture your need for nibbling. Nibble each other's earlobes or other parts of the body that feels good. Practice a soft, light, romantic nibble with your lover. Nibbling feels good.
O Offer breakfast in bed or some other surprise your lover might like. Be creative. Plan. Make it very special.
P Pretend you are long-lost, passionate lovers. Use your imagination. Think! What could you do that you haven't done for a long time? Do that.
Q Quote your lover a love poem or a special passage from a book or greeting card that expresses exactly how you feel.
R Remember the little things. Respect your partner by paying attention. Be aware when your partner's likes and dislikes. Notice what makes them happy and deliver more of that.
S Slow dance by candlelight or in the backyard in the moonlight. Get back to romance. Be sensitive to the romantic needs of your lover. Romantically impaired? Read, 1001 Ways to Be Romantic.
T Try a little tenderness. Be gentle. Practice the "soft touch." Go slow. Be intentional.
U Uncover your deepest feelings. Speak them or write them to your lover. Communicate them unwaveringly. Let your emotions express themselves with sensitivity, understanding and love.
V Vow your eternal love for each other. Renew your vows. Make some new ones. Look up the word "vow" in the dictionary. Live by your solemn promises.
W Watch a sunrise or sunset together. Bring a picnic basket with snacks and your favorite beverage. Let the warmth you feel for your partner be felt.
X X-plore your romantic dreams. Day dream about this one. Think. X-cellerate. Don't wait. Do something X-citing together; something you said you would do in the past, but you both have been putting off or making X-cuses about.
Y Yearn for each other's touch. Don't hold back. A hug-a-day pays dividends beyond your wildest imaginings. AND. . . it feels good to be touched by the one you love.
Z Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz in each other's arms. Zero in on being close. Touching feels good. Enhance your enjoyment by listening to your partner's breathing cycle and to their heartbeat. Inhale and exhale together. Become as one.

Change...

Without accepting the fact that everything changes, we cannot find perfect composure. But unfortunately, although it is true, it is difficult for us to accept it. Because we cannot accept the truth of transience, we suffer. ~Shunryu Suzuki~

The curious paradox is that when I accept myself just as I am, then I can change.
~Carl Rogers~

I went to beauty salon last friday (Feb. 9, 2007)- i dunno what happened in there... yes, exactly! weird... but that's it! hahaha... well, new hair cut~

Saturday is all fun and fun! Pok's wedding day. Pok is one of my close friends since high school. That's why i really have to file a leave of absent and attend her wedd day! (by the way, where is the best of friends Angela and Mitchell? The Funny Group is INCOMPLETE!)

Yesterday, Feb. 11, 2007 my relatives and i went to Camp12 Bukidnon for my lolo's death (grandma's bro). Again, sad but we have to accept the fact that he's gone.

True Angels...

Today, this day, is here for living........
Tommorow is there for dreaming, hoping and for planning.........
I must decide, to wisely use these precious hours, without fear, haste or waste.
For all happiness comes from within ourselves....
angels to light our way
Sometimes in life, a darkness may behold our lives, and in times of weakness, we ask "why?", but without some darkness, how could we appreciate the shining light.
God created many special people. To behold one, just look in the mirror.

Angels are sent from heaven above, they're a symbol of peace, an expression of love.
Guiding arms are there to protect you all the day through, so when you wonder what kept you from harm today, just remember that there are angels God has sent your way.

Well, to view some angel pictures, you can visit my ANGHEL ALBUM . Angels are the guardians of hope and wonder, the keepers of magic and dreams. We all have "guardian angel", right? Well, that depends if you believe. Years ago, i visited one of the bookstores here in our place. I found one book about angels where you can find great articles, poems and there's a section where you can check what's your guardian angel's name. And when i check mine, his name is ANGEL ANNAUEL. I dunno how true it is but i could feel that that's his name. Well, as what i've said, it depends if you believe this stuff. However, we can also find TRUE ANGELS who doesn't have wings... babies consider as angels, a friend is also an angel, our parents are angels, and after all, we are all angels in training; all we have to do is spread our wings and fly! (pssst~ do u have wings? well, just fly figuratively :-) )

I’m searchin` for my wings- I’m STILL the Missing Angel.

bday card from mommy els

My mom wake me up early in the morning... she handed me an envelope came from my "mommy" (pa's sister in australia). After i opened this (well, i have this in my hand right now), i was astonished by the color, the design and the message of this birthday card. Mixtures of PINK and GREEN (much loved color of mine) with FLOWERS design. wow~ great! Plus "some" dollors (hahaha...) well, the important is the message... and

the message goes like this:

HIC!
Whishing you everything that makes a Birthday SPECIAL,
because you are so SPECIAL.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY NENG!!

Lots of Love
Auntie Els & Norm

Well well well, to my Mommy Els, thanks!
~honey~

"Movie Quotes"

MOVIE QUOTES... become part of our cultural vocabulary.

"Love means never having to say you're sorry." - LOVE STORY (1970)

"I have always depended on the kindness of strangers."- A STREETCAR NAMED DESIRE (1951)

"Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world, she walks into mine."- CASABLANCA (1942)

"Either he's dead, or my watch has stopped."
A Day at the Races, spoken by Groucho Marx

"My momma always said life was like a box of chocolates…you never know what you're gonna get."
Forrest Gump, spoken by Tom Hanks

"Marriage isn't a word…it's a sentence!"
The Crowd

"Fasten your seat-belts, it's going to be a bumpy night."
All About Eve, spoken by Bette Davis

"I have nipples, Greg, would you milk me?"
Meet the Parents, spoken by Robert de Niro

"It's not the men in my life that counts - it's the life in my men."
I'm No Angel, spoken by Mae West

"When I'm good, I'm very, very good, but when I'm bad, I'm better."
I'm No Angel, spoken by Mae West

"That (sex) was the most fun I ever had without laughing."
Annie Hall, Woody Allen, Director

"Is sex dirty? Only if it's done right."
Everything You Always Wanted to Know about Sex, Woody Allen, Director

It's my birthday...

I woke up early… I attended the mass at 6am…I was with my family and relatives… we went to “Rose Beach” and that’s it! Well, that’s not exactly my plan was. (It’s not that I don’t want to spend it with them~) My bag was stolen two weeks ago, all my important things such as my personal phone, mp3… and my budget for my birthday is obviously cleaned out that I can’t already continue the plan. I already spent my birthday with my family last year and I intended not to invite friends because I just want to be with my family. And this year celebration supposedly will be with those friends but sad, nothing happened. Out of budget si Honey!!!

I enjoyed the beach party with my family unit... I enjoyed swimming, playing in WAVES with my nieces and nephews… taking pictures and videos… talking and examining the place. duh~ its all FUN and FUN, and that's it!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!!!

Viva Señora de la Candelaria

Happy Fiesta Tagoloanons...

"Nuestra Señora de la Candelaria". The feast day of Our Lady of Candles is every February 2 and its celebration in our place Tagoloan, Misamis Oriental (Cagayan de Oro City) is the biggest and most exuberant religious pageantry. The fiesta tradition starts with the blessing of candles, ceremonial mass, and the procession of the image, followed by the Fiesta Queen and her court. One of he highlights also of the celebration was the Palaras/Gakit Festival. It all started in 2002. Palaras (a native language) means an easier way of transporting goods and native products from the hinterlands down to the town proper using gakit (tied up bamboos floating the Tagoloan River.We also have what we call "sakay sakay" every February 3....

Other Fiesta Contest/Activities: 2007
- OFFROAD Contest
- Dance Group Contest
- Bb. Ikatlong Hari
- Public/Private teachers/students/government official presentation
- Drum and Bugle Contest
- Yoyoy Villame & Max Surban (January 31, 2007)
- Actress/Actors (Blackdyak, Giselle Sanches, and more: February 2, 2007)
- True Faith Band (visits Tagoloan: February 3, 2007)
- etc.

Falling In Love

February- the month of LOVE!
ADVANCE HAPPY VALENTINES DAY TO ALL

I would like to share to you an article by Robert Paul Reyes- Falling in Love

Falling in love! What a romantic phrase! What magical words! Does it not bring a smile to your face when you hear those sweet words? It doesn't bring a smile to my face. I have coldly analyzed that well worn phrase and here is what I have discovered.
Falling intimates a loss of control. Regardless how agile you are you can't choreograph your fall. You have no control of your limbs as they fall in an unsightly heap. A galoot in love seems to lose control of his own tongue. He will babble endlessly and tediously about his dear sweetheart.
Falling implies a temporal state. A few years ago there was a popular commercial in which an elderly lady fell down and cried out "I've fallen and I can't get up", but in real life when you fall you brush yourself off and get up again. You fall in love and when you regain your senses you fall out of love. Only in the movies do lovers walk hand in hand into the sunset and stay in love forever.
Falling suggests a factor of unpredictability. Unless you are involved in a scam, you can't plan a fall. A fall happens when you least expect it. Likewise you can't plan on falling in love at a convenient point in your life. You can't plan on graduating from college, finding a good job and then falling in love. Love happens when you least expect it. It hits you like a two-by- four right between the eyes.
Falling hints of pain. You can't fall down without experiencing pain, suffering a few bruises and maybe even a broken bone or two. When you fall in love don't expect everything to go smoothly. Expect bruised feelings and perhaps even a broken heart.
Falling brings to mind a loss of grace and composure. No clumsy oaf looks graceful taking a tumble. A victim gets up from a fall with a sheepish expression on his face. A buffoon in love will perform all sorts of circus tricks to keep the object of his love amused. There is nothing graceful about a man or woman in love.
Falling indicates a loss of free will. No person makes a rational decision to fall down. If you stub your toe on a rock, you will lose your balance whether or not you want to. A lover is no longer a free agent. He is the under the spell of his precious babycakes. He seeks only to do her will.
Falling points to inevitability. No matter how careful you are sooner or later you will fall down. Everyone falls down. Even nimble athletes fall down. You are only deceiving yourself if you think that you are immune to falling in love. As sure as the night follows day you will fall in love.
Yes! You will fall in love, but despite everything I have written, falling in love is not something to dread. The Bible states that "God is Love" and when we are consumed with love for someone else that spark of deity burns ever so brightly in us. Despite all the pain and despite all the misunderstandings, love is still the greatest thing in the world!